Lee, therefore sorry for the discomfort. I’ve numerous ideas having been a partners therapist for 27 years and having heard numerous comparable experiences. A wedding could be the obligation of both lovers, but an event is an option this 1 person makes. You’re not in charge of your husband’s affair. Feels like as of this minute he could be very conflicted. That actually leaves you in great doubt. You will be both in tremendous pain in various methods. There is not all answer is fitted by a one size on how long you ought to wait.